How to Start Writing & Keep a Journal, Even if You’ve Never Written Before.
Writing is one of the most life enhancing things you can do. It’s not easy, but it’s free, life changing, and available to everyone. And you don’t need to give it a lot of time to reap the benefits. So how do you start writing? And keep a journal? Even if you’ve never written before? Or since your school days? Where do you start? How is it done? And more importantly, how do you keep it up?
As you know I started writing with blogging in 2012. Soon after which I wrote my first novel. But it wasn’t until I hosted my first Creativity Bootcamp in 2015 that I started keeping a journal ‘properly.’ All my life I’d kept notebooks. These I filled with mostly lists, plans, snippets of this and that, plus the occasional stab at some kind of narrative that somehow just never felt right… I made keeping a journal a condition of taking part in the bootcamp because I wanted to do it myself.
I wanted a space in which I could write freely and explore, with no need to edit, and no plan to share. A lot us, myself included, kept childhood diaries. These are places in which you write what happened each day while avoiding thoughts, feelings, and anything that might give you away, even to you. And this is still what makes it hard later. The looking deeper at yourself.
As I’ve already said writing is hard, but it is possible, accessible and transformative, a way to know and understand yourself better, a way to be free, in short it’s worth the effort.
So if you’ve decided this is the year here’s my top tips for how, plus some obstacles you’ll likely meet along the way.
- Some people prefer to use pen and paper, and some like to type. I do both. Go with whatever appeals to you most.
- Aim to write everyday but if you miss a day don’t worry, just pick it up again the next day. However, for best results, that is to create a writing habit, you should try to write everyday for as long a stretch as possible. Ideally three weeks.
- A journal is about the day to day feelings, thoughts, happenings, observations. Length doesn’t matter, the time you spend doesn’t matter. One page, five minutes, one minute. Up to you.
- Some people like to draw/doodle/paint in their journal. That doesn’t have to be good or look like anything either. Personally I like a few splodges in the pages. I let the children draw in mine too.
- Write first thing in the morning or last thing at night. Whenever is best for you.
- Give up thoughts of ‘being good‘ as a writer or person, just write.
- There are no rules.
What to Write…
- Descriptive/Observational Journaling. Write an observational piece using your senses. Describe what you see, how you feel, what you can hear. This is a powerful way to get started with creative writing, not to mention extra points for becoming suddenly more aware and mindful. It is a kind of deep meditation but with your conscious participation.
Here’s an example of this kind of writing from poet, novelist, and master journal keeper, May Sarton…
‘September 15th. Begin here. It is raining. I look out on the maple, where a few leaves have turned yellow, and listen to Punch, the parrot, talking to himself and to the rain ticking gently against the windows. I am here alone for the first time in weeks, to take up my ‘real’ life again at last. That is what is strange-that friends, even passionate love are not my real life unless there is time alone in which to explore and to discover what is happening or has happened. Without the interruptions, nourishing and maddening, this life would become arid. Yet I taste it fully only when I am alone here and ‘the house and I resume old conversations.’ – May Sarton, Journal of a Solitude
I have at times used Mae’s ‘Begin here. It is raining. Which it usually is here.
When you find your thoughts wandering follow them, write them down. And if you run out of steam in that direction return to description. To the way you’re sitting, the light in the window, your breath, how the grass moves, and the trees look, and the sounds of the house.
- Free Writing. Let yourself write freely without thought, care for spelling, grammar, or structure. Let your thoughts go where they will and write down anything and everything that comes to mind. This is essentially a brain dump. Mine often end up in verse. Anything can happen, that’s the beauty of it. Staring at a blank page? Not sure where to start? Then start with that. As your mind wanders let your pen follow, simple as that.
- Questions. Take something you’re worried, upset, or annoyed over and write about it. See if the act of writing helps you work through the issue and find the answers or at least a different perspective. I often find that it does.
- Vignettes. Write a short piece about your latest visit to the hairdressers, the school run, attending a funeral. Describe the weather, the characters, include snippets of overheard conversation, what the atmosphere was like and how you felt. Aim to show rather than tell. Don’t tell us it was raining and cold, talk about how the mourners watched the rain shifting over the mountain and huddled closer together, as their feet sank in the cold wet ground.
- Random. If you’re at home for a day, keep a notebook open and pen handy to write any and every stray thought that tickles your fancy. The kids say something funny? Write it down. Had a funny thought while getting lunch? Stop and write it.
Assuming this is new for you let’s look at some possible obstacles, and discoveries…
- Feeling seriously awkward.
- Not knowing what to write.
- Hating what you write, it sounds childish, plus it’s not good, in fact it’s bad, really bad.
- Wondering what the point of this is?
- Realising you are editing yourself and are not telling the truth on the page because (a) someone might read it (b) YOU don’t want to read it/admit these things to yourself/or put it in words.
- Hitting on truths that hurt and you don’t want to face. This is what my friend Miriam calls the ‘lids flying off saucepans all over the place stage’ of keeping a journal, because you can’t do it for any length of time and not end up with personal truth.
- Wondering why everything you write is childish, sentimental, and nice, or dark, brooding, and miserable.
- Discovering that your journal is a good place to go with a question, to work things out for yourself.
- Aha moments, about yourself, life, love, and the universe.
The good news is all of that is normal. Stick with keeping a journal for as little as three weeks, and you’ll be amazed at what you discover.
And don’t give up because it’s too hard at first. It’s hard because you haven’t done it before. The writing is poor because you haven’t written in 20 years or however long it’s been, maybe ever.
This is the beginning of a beautiful period of transformation, of self-knowledge, self-trust, change and growth. So trust the process, all of it, and start writing. Have you got your notebook yet?
If you feel inspired by this post take the leap, give it a little time, I swear you won’t ever regret it.
This post is an excerpt from my forthcoming eBook ‘That Curious Love of Green – A Complete Coming Out Guide for Creatives in Hiding.’ Available soon on Amazon for pre-order and download.
December ’17 EDIT: And if you’d like help with all this I’ll be hosting a FOUR WEEK CREATIVE WRITING PROGRAMME at my home in Ballinamore, Co Leitrim, in February 2018.
The aim of this programme is to create, ignite, or re-start, a regular writing practice for 2018. This is for those who have never written before or since school but would like to, for those who are trying to start, or finish, a big project, like writing a novel, for those who are writing/blogging/journaling but feel blocked, are struggling with voice/motivation.
For those who want to kick start or gear up their writing practice in 2018, develop a regular writing practice, inspired, empowered, and more confident. For those who want to improve their writing craft. The programme comprise of 4 sessions at my home in Ballinamore, plus additional work to be completed in your own time. And please note I never put anyone on the spot. Sharing your work is always optional.
The cost will be €80 per person and is open to any person aged 16+. Day and time is yet to be confirmed but will be Friday or Saturday morning, or alternatively Thursday evenings. PLACES ARE LIMITED AND PRE-BOOKING TO DETERMINE INTEREST IS ESSENTIAL. You can pre-book, at no cost, by emailing me, firstname.lastname@example.org letting me know your day(s) preference if you have one. For those overseas or other parts of Ireland, my intention is to move this programme to an eCourse in 2018.
Be sure to keep an eye here on the blog, in my new Curiosity Shop, and on the FB page for details. Have a wonderful weekend xo Jane Ps I still have a few places left on my VISION BOARD WORKSHOP taking place on Sat, January 6th. Please see the Curiosity Shop (top of the page) for details, and a few special deals..