13 Signs You’re one of the Fae (The Fairies)

“Are you a witch, or are you a fairy?

Or are you the wife of Michael Cleary?” – Irish children’s rhyme

Poor Bridget Cleary, in 1895 she was burned alive by her husband in front of witnesses because they believed she was a ‘changeling’ a fairy substitute for the real Bridget, abducted by the fairies.

Changelings, puca’s, the banshee, the Tuatha de Danann (Irelands mythical race), the fae, I grew up with these, and I write about them now.

My first novel Cailleach~Witch is an outsider tale about a family of women with special abilities or powers, such as healing, second sight, and communication with the other world. In Ireland they would be known traditionally as Bean Feasa meaning Wise Women. It’s a modern gothic story with paranormal elements. Inspired by Irish folklore, mythology, and the landscape I grew up in. In particular that of the Sliabh an Iarainn mountain, my fathers home. Where I spent much of my childhood.

While the book crosses a number of genres, gothic fiction, gothic fantasy, Irish fantasy & mythology, and Irish magic realism – where magical events occur alongside daily life without much notice being taken. 

You only have to look at Irish attitudes and laws around fairy trees and forts as well as the still prominent role of healers to see Ireland is like that. For those who don’t know, fairy trees and forts (any ring of trees) are protected by law in Ireland and there’s not many people would feel comfortable with damaging as much as a twig in case it would bring them bad luck. We think we don’t believe these things but superstitions run deep. 

While walking in Sligo in the early 1900s, WB Yeats asked an elderly man he met on the road if he believed in fairies. “I do not,” replied the man, “What do you take me for? What kind of eejit would believe in the little people or in witches and goblins and leprechauns? Don’t be ridiculous. I do not believe in them. Not at all…” There was a pause. “But they’re there,” the man concluded…’

Much of this reality, of our rootedness in superstition and folklore, is so woven in our collective experience it is largely unconscious. For example, in my case I did minimal research before writing the book and was surprised, at times shocked, to find support for almost every idea I’d included. Even with artistic license of fantasy it would make you wonder. The latent knowledge that lies inside us and might never be brought forth. Where did it come from? 

Among the characters in my novel are otherworld creatures but also humans with close ties to the otherworld. And I have at times been struck in real life by people with what you might call ‘the look.‘ Much like some people remind me of birds there are some I would call fairy people, a look, but also a vibe, a ‘way of going on,’ which is a definition of culture in itself is it not? Where did they/these ideas come from? My idea of what they are, is almost certainly not mine at all.

Stories, imagination, popular culture, and our subconscious all play a part. Check my list below, I’ve adapted it from some of my characters, and from the stories of my youth. See if you are or you know a fairy woman or a man. Word to the wise, elf on the shelf it isn’t…

‘The world is full of magic things, patiently waiting for our senses to grow sharper.’ – W.B. Yeats

13 Signs You’re One of the Fae…

  1. You’re tall and slight of build with sharp features.
  2. You most likely have pale skin and black, red, or fair hair.
  3. You have small, bright slanted eyes.
  4. You’re what people would call different in many ways, indefinable, eccentric, aloof.
  5. More still than quiet, with an intense quality/presence.
  6. Your favourite mode of transport is mist and your movements, walking, or in repose, are both awkward and graceful.
  7. You feel more affinity with landscape and elements than people.
  8. You’re from another world and so don’t quite fit and it shows.
  9. Lover of art, music, dance, and beauty.
  10. Free spirit.
  11. Both youthful and ancient.
  12. Lover of trees.
  13. Shy, kind, but with a cold streak, playful, and wise…

Does this sound like you or anyone you know?

If this is a subject that speaks to your soul you will enjoy my novel Cailleach~Witch. It’s available now on Amazon. You can find it HERE You can even read a free sample + all the brilliant reviews before you buy.

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Thanks for dropping by, xo Jane.

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17 thoughts on “13 Signs You’re one of the Fae (The Fairies)”

  • Yes,,,I do believe I am,,, 🙂 I am obsessed with fairies,,have so many photos of fairies on my computer as well. And I so want to make a fairy garden. One night my husband and I were arriving home,,and it was not lightning bug season yet,,which is summer. A light whisked across my yard,,right before we turned into the drive,,small and only one. But I just know it to be our Fairy. :)Fun and good to believe!

    • It’s spelt faerie. And no, it’s not just how someone wants to spell it. I am the faerie of wind from Crystoria and I can assure you that we faeries take great offense in the wrong spelling of faerie.

    • My family has long history with fairy gardens. My dad had a beautiful and majestic fairy forest.. When my mother moved out, she also made a fairy garden. And, once I own a house with a yard, the first thing I’ll do, will be a fairy garden.

  • I so love this, Jane!
    (I have all but 1, 2, and half of #3, hehe. So perhaps there is something else for those of us without “the Look”… 😉 )

  • I fit only 7 of those boxes, so alas although I think of wild nature as my religion and am at my happiest in a forest or in the bush collecting and finding inspiration for my art or decoration for our home, sadly I guess I am not. 🙁

    • Strange I would have said you had that look across the eyes but what do I know! It’s just a thought, an impression, a story like any other.

  • Jane, I really enjoyed reading this ! I definitely have traces of the Fae running through my veins ! I look forward to reading your book! I am hooked already! Love and light and faery hugs to birthing it soon xx

  • I am a CHANGLING. Glory Be. I finally found the reasons I am the way I am. Although I don’t have blue or green eyes I am Irish. Very fair skinned and a loner was most say. When the weather is warm you will find me in anyone of my three gardens. Will be adding a forth this summer. I am at my happiest outside walking my dogs, going to the mountains or a lake. Hopefully moving to northern CA where I find the most relief from my MS and arthritis. There I can enjoy the outside more.
    I really enjoyed your article. I try to live green as much as possible.
    Fairy Kisses to You

  • Hi All,

    I have all the signs and it spooks me, i was told yesterday that i was half human half fairy, i met this person and 30 minutes later he could read me entirely by the sound of my voice and my eyes. He’s an angel half Demon but totally nice. he asked me to read tarot cards to him, which ive never before btw! and i was able to read or more so to feel what the cards were telling me.. he was so happy, he was expecting me in a way.. i always knew i was different since a small child, my nan was a witche and she did practice white spells before you freak out lol I always new i had something extra and that i didnt belong to this realm or even my family i couldnt relate to them. I am now practicing as a healer using crystals and also going into reikei.. i hope i will finally meet my calling.

    Thanks Jane lovely blog

    • Only in one sense Livy. While the word does mean ‘from’ in Scottish that’s not the meaning in this instance. I’m talking about ‘THE FAE’ as a group/elemental beings/a mythical race. Not about someone being fae/from. Here’s more if you’re interested.
      ‘The English fairy derives from Old French form faierie, a derivation from faie (from Vulgar Latin fata) with the abstract noun suffix -erie. In Old French romance, a faie or fee was a woman skilled in magic, and who knew the power and virtue of words, of stones, and of herbs.

      “Fairy” was used to represent: an illusion or enchantment; the land of the Faes; collectively the inhabitants thereof; an individual such as a fairy knight. Faie became Modern English fay, while faierie became fairy, but this spelling almost exclusively refers to one individual (the same meaning as fay). In the sense of “land where fairies dwell”, archaic spellings faery and faerie are still in use.’ Or Fae in the case of Ireland, and Scotland too I’ve no doubt. Considering how close the two are in every way.

  • I have been drawn to faeries since Tinkerbell from Peter Pan when I was little. I find Faeries and what they are just so beautiful! When I was a teen I had faery statues everywhere in my room. I truly believed in faeries and wanted to see them so badly. All my life I’ve felt different, I never quite fit in with others. I’m known for being really shy, kind, sweet, bubbly, goofy, naive, very child-like and I have such a youth about me. I have had so many people tell me “you’re the kindest person I’ve ever met” and “I’ve never met anyone like you” and that there is something about me but can’t quite place their finger on it.. and tell me that I’m unique and rare and that I have his innocence/ sweetness about me, I also have a very wild imagination and constantly live in another world in my own head where anything is possible and always seen life through rose colored glasses, I love Celtic music and faery music and faery gardens and nature and animals and children! To me nothing is more beautiful than making a child laugh, just bringing joy. And I’m 27 and look like a teenager still to most people. I truly believe I’m something out of this world, I’m very spiritual and believe there is so much beauty in this universe than meets the eye. The more I meditate and call for other realms to show themselves to me the more I feel awaken. I defiantly think I either have faery dna in me or I was once a faery in another realm. I never understood this world like maybe I was never meant to be apart of it.

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